How to text women to reply (instructions) (2023)

In this post you will learn:

  • Why the "3 day rule" sucks.
  • Why long texts ruin your dating chances.
  • How to use SMS to set a date for your first message.
  • The Worst Mistakes Men Make When Texting Turns Women Off.
  • SMS examples for different scenarios.

And much more.

Keep reading to the end to learn each step and get more data now.

Index

  1. 1. Why do women get cold to texts and what can you do about it?
    • How can I get girls to respond to my messages?
  2. 2. Why You Can't Conquer a Woman Via Text Message
    • The purpose of the SMS
    • 3 simplified rules for getting data by text
  3. 3. Examples of how to text a girl you like
    • Opening text to a girl
    • What to Send a Girl to Start a Conversation
    • What to send a girl to make her smile
    • How do you keep a girl interested while texting?
    • How to text a woman
    • Should I text a girl every day?
    • When should you stop texting a girl?
    • How should I send a text message to a girl I like?
    • What can I say instead of hey?
    • How do you make a girl want you?
    • How to make a girl miss you?
    • How often should you text a girl?
    • what do you send your crush
    • How do I ask my crush?
    • What is the 3 day rule?
    • How can I impress a girl during a chat?
    • Isn't it too soon to text her?
    • What should I say in my message?
    • How do I report it if she doesn't answer?

1. Why do women get cold to texts and what can you do about it?

The feeling of excitement of meeting someone quickly turns to disappointment when your text chat goes cold. Even worse when she doesn't even bother to respond.

You feel like you've done everything right, but it's a complete mystery why she's not responding.

You might even have tried searching for "text game" but still haven't gotten any answers.

It seems strange because when you first met her it was all smiles and flirting.

But if you think about it, then everything becomes clear. Hot girls are asked out by guys all the time, and if you don't stand out, another guy will get your attention.

How can I get girls to respond to my messages?

Getting her to respond and go out on a date is often the equivalent of avoiding yourself. It doesn't matter if you are thereToronto,Vancouver,calgary, Asia or anywhere else in the world. Women will respond positively if you let them.

the common textMistakes that boys makecan change a girl from interested to busy. If you do any of the following things, it could ruin your chances of dating.

You should never:

  • send long messages
  • Tell her your life story
  • Use the "3 day rule"
  • Try sending her a text message to like you
  • Try to be cool, witty or funny
  • Text often

You don't have to be funny, tell your life story, have a text conversation, or try to get her to like you.

Women fall for guys who make them feel something and text isn't enough, you have to get them to meet you on a real date.

When you introduced yourself, she may have felt butterflies in her stomach, curious, excited, or not at all interested. Whatever it was, that will be the only thing that will make her respond or not.

euWin how to trade like the FBI. Click here.

If you find yourself taking too long to send a message (3-day rule) or arrange a date (cutting straight to the chase), let it cool and "life will get in the way."

Men who feel insecure often send long texts or messages. It's needy and turns women off because it makes it seem like you have nothing better to do.

*Observation:There's nothing wrong with being funny or witty, it's just not necessary and it might even work against you. It often feels like a guy is trying too hard, so stick to the basics.

2. Why You Can't Conquer a Woman Via Text Message

Sometimes guys say to me, "I disagree with you on this point, I know I changed girls' minds by texting X and X..."

The problem is 90%Communicationwhat creates attraction is absent when you write. body language, tone of voice, eye contact and touch.

How to text women to reply (instructions) (1)

Attraction doesn't come with pixels on your phone. If she didn't like you when you first met her, nothing you text her is going to change her mind.

Sometimes it's just a matter of persistence and timing, and that's where tracking comes in. More on how to follow up at the end.

The purpose of the SMS

There's only one reason to text a girl you've just met - To set up a first date. And after the first date? It's about setting up a second date.

Don't be fooled by so-called pick-up artists trying to sell you "The Ultimate Guide to SMS" or other complicated crap. They have your number, so now is the time to make the magic happen; go visit her in person.

3 simplified rules for getting data by text

This is the only set of rules you will ever need to text girls. I've been doing this for years and I know how effective it is. Best of all, it's simple and straightforward.

  1. Text her the same day you met her:Attractive women are often asked out on dates. If you don't text her the same day, she will quickly lose interest. Life is racing, don't become a memory.
  2. Set a date for your first message:There is no reason to go through a bunch of messages to text a woman. She likes you or not, depending on when you approached her, so hit her while the iron is hot. Avoid thinking too much and ask her out.
  3. keep it simple:Don't send long and complicated messages. Keep your first message short and sweet by getting straight to the point.

3. Examples of how to text a girl you like

Opening text to a girl

Depending on how you met her, you might text a girl for the first time like this: "Hi Jane, it was nice meeting you today. Let's go for coffee this weekend, what day suits you?"

What to Send a Girl to Start a Conversation

If you haven't been in touch in a while, message her to start something back up. Try this: "Hey Anne, long time no see! I was busy with work so I lost contact. How was everything with you?

What to send a girl to make her smile

If you've already spent a fewDeadlineor more, you can relax a little with your messages. An occasional joke can be fine, but make sure you don't text too often. Try: "There are three types of people in this world, those who understand math and those who don't..."

4. Send questions and answers via SMS

How do you keep a girl interested while texting?

Trying to keep a girl interested while texting is a losing game. The longer you wait to go on a date, the more likely she is to back out. Every day after you approach a girl she loses more of the "feel" she got when you were talking to her. If you wait too long, she'll get "busy" simply because she doesn't feel enough interest in dating again.

How to text a woman

  1. keep it simple
  2. go straight to the point
  3. Make an appointment
  4. Use assertive language, but don't be too serious
  5. Follow up the day before the appointment so you don't have a no show

Should I text a girl every day?

Definitely don't text a girl every day unless she texts you first. By texting every day you show neediness and make it seem like you have nothing else to do. When texting a girl for the first time, just set the date and leave it at that. If she texts you, feel free to chat with her.

When should you stop texting a girl?

If a girl says she's not interested, or you only get a one-word response, or she replies days after you text her, then it's time to stop texting her. Obvious signs of disinterest like these mean you're wasting your time.

How should I send a text message to a girl I like?

When you like a girl, it's very easy to get overly excited and lose your temper. In this situation, try the following:

  1. Treat her like any other girl.
  2. Don't text her first except to arrange a date.
  3. Write your message, but don't send it. Come back an hour later and read it again to see if it's still good (avoid sending needy messages).
  4. Don't tell her you like her. This is the biggest mistake guys make. Show her that you like her by going on a date.
  5. Do not send random messages to the chat.

What can I say instead of hey?

"Hey" is probably the most annoying message you could ever send. Always cut to the chase whether it's online dating or texting a girl you approached. Having something to say that is relevant to going out together.

How do you make a girl want you?

Never try to get a girl to want you over text, it doesn't work. Instead, focus on personal commitments and do the following:

  1. Keep strong eye contact
  2. hold her hand
  3. smile
  4. Focus the conversation on her
  5. Keep the date short (no more than 1 hour)
  6. invite her home
  7. not much news
  8. Don't try to impress her or brag
  9. Don't talk about yourself unless she asks
  10. go for a kiss

How to make a girl miss you?

If she doesn't like you, she won't miss you. Because of this, you need to build confidence and social skills so that you can make connections with women. Self-confidence is a woman's biggest asset, and that includes being assertive and direct, not apologizing for everything, not asking what she wants to do (you make the appointment), etc.

How often should you text a girl?

Keep your texting frequency to a minimum. Once you meet a girl, you should text her the same day to set the date. After a first date, try texting the next day or two later to set up another date. If she wants to talk and send you a message, the door is open and talking is a good idea.

what do you send your crush

Texting your crush is the same as texting any other girl. Keep it simple and don't show too much interest or text about your feelings. Ask her out for coffee or a drink, then focus on building a connection.

How do I ask my crush?

To invite your crush over text, send them a short message and suggest a coffee or drink. For example: "Hey Julie, I have this weekend off, let's go get a drink."

What is the 3 day rule?

The 3 day rule is the idea that you should wait 3 days to text a girl after you get her number. It's based on the mistaken assumption that texting too soon will feel needy. Her crush will eventually lose interest because you waited so long to text her.

How can I impress a girl during a chat?

Not. If you're trying to impress girls, you're already going in the wrong direction. Women are attracted to independent men who don't seek validation from women. When trying to impress her, you come across as needy or arrogant. Instead, think of it as, "What would impress me about her?" By allowing them to prove themselves to you, you will change the whole dynamic and come across as much more confident and confident.

Isn't it too soon to text her?

Many men use the "three day rule" because they are worried about appearing needy. In fact, a guy who builds things on the fly is bold and assertive.

He will also stand out from all the other guys who are waiting and trying to look cool even if they've been thinking about them all day.

People who wait, masterb... They understand what matters. There is no perfect time for an after messagemeet a woman, but if you wait, your chances get worse.

The window of time after meeting a girl is short. Enjoy this short time while you are fresh in your memory. You will only look needy if you text her in novel-length text or too much text.

Whoever makes the most effort to communicate is usually the one doing the chasing. So if you want a chance to get a girl to chase you, don't write too much. Instead, make sure you keep your text ratio close to 1:1 and text the girl as often as she texts you.– The art of charm

What should I say in my message?

As long as you keep it simple and to the point, the exact wording isn't all that important. Tell her it was nice meeting her and ask what day you can meet for coffee.

Avoid submissive language:One thing to avoid is weak language like "would you", "can we", "can we", "would you like to" etc. They all look "beta" or unreliable.

In my case, I actually booked the first dates at home, which is a little more complicated. However, I won't go into that in this post, as it's more advanced than serving a coffee. Keep it simple for best results.

How do I report it if she doesn't answer?

Always text her a few days later if she doesn't respond.

Many women who don't respond to the first message will respond to the second. This pushes the fence sitters off the fence. Women who are not interested will remain silent.

Just send a "?" and ended it.

It's just a nudge or a friendly reminder to the sitters. There is no need to say more because you already said it in the first message.

Part of dating is a numbers game, so don't get too upset if someone doesn't respond. Who is she anyway?

A foreigner. Don't take it too seriously, another date is always coming.

Questions? Comment below!

Listen to my interview with Jack Donovan here:Never apologize for being a man.

How to text women to reply (instructions) (2)
Top Articles
Latest Posts
Article information

Author: Sen. Emmett Berge

Last Updated: 01/07/2023

Views: 6345

Rating: 5 / 5 (80 voted)

Reviews: 95% of readers found this page helpful

Author information

Name: Sen. Emmett Berge

Birthday: 1993-06-17

Address: 787 Elvis Divide, Port Brice, OH 24507-6802

Phone: +9779049645255

Job: Senior Healthcare Specialist

Hobby: Cycling, Model building, Kitesurfing, Origami, Lapidary, Dance, Basketball

Introduction: My name is Sen. Emmett Berge, I am a funny, vast, charming, courageous, enthusiastic, jolly, famous person who loves writing and wants to share my knowledge and understanding with you.